Tag archive for being real

Is it ever okay to walk?

When it comes to emotive issues (abortion, property rights, Biblical womanhood, etc), I tend to have firm, unwavering opinions. Divorce is one thing about which I have had a stubborn stand for a long time. In my view, until very recently, it was just never  permissible for any serious Christian couple. As far as I […]

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10 tough truths about dating today’s Christian woman

Dear unmarried guys, I hate to break it to you, but Christian women are not as innocent as they may seem. Perhaps instead of saying “they”, I should say “we,” but oh, well. Semantics. I thought about you today, guys, and decided that it would be a good idea to tell you the truth because […]

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10 things I try to do to keep my life drama-free

Hey! Have you ever been through a phase where you felt like “No More Drama” should be your theme song? One morning a few years ago, I woke up and faced a reality I had been avoiding for months. I was dissatisfied with my life. Sure, at first glance, everything appeared to be going well. […]

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Vanity

Hey. I watched an interesting video the other day on YouTube. An East African musician was giving her viewers a sneak peek into her life, and part of this behind-the-scenes show included a tour of her house. She made sure to remind us all that this was only a holiday house, as her real residence […]

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Forgive

Hi there, Have you ever had a hard time forgiving someone? I have. In fact, one night not too long ago, I was offended by something a good friend had done – more accurately, something a good friend had not done. It was frustrating, because the issue was so trivial that I did not even […]

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10 types of toxic guys

Hey there, Are you wondering if you’re dating/courting/engaged to the wrong man? Nobody is perfect, so for anyone to get married, they have to settle in some way. But while God created each of us fearfully and wonderfully, there is a level beyond which no woman should settle. There is such a thing as getting […]

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Shepherd

Dear Worldly Shepherds, Is it alright if I ask you some questions? I seem to have embraced quite a few misconceptions. I’m not writing this to provoke an altercation… just hoping you can sort out my twisted perceptions. I thought ministry was a verb, not a noun; service, not a business; laying one’s life down. […]

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