Tag archive for friendship

10 things you can say to make her day

Hey, all. I’d like to begin by apologizing for the comment issues on this blog. I’m always messing around with the settings and didn’t realize that the default comment setting had been set to “Do Not Allow”, possibly for months now. I thought Disqus was playing me but it’s probably my fault. Poleni. I need […]

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10 simple points about leaving the friend zone

Dear guys, This is going to be a long one. For those of you cannot handle the 2,000-word letter this is likely to become, please scroll down for the TL;DR* at the end. A good friend of mine gave me a good laugh a few hours ago (edit: I wrote this on Nov 30) when […]

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Should I shut the door or leave it open?

Hey there. Do you ever ask yourself if you should shut a door or leave it open? I’m not talking bathroom doors and married couples here. I mean professional, relationship, academic doors. People doors. Situation doors. How do you decide if you should persist in something, give it a break or let it go completely? […]

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Stop taking that woman for granted

Dear married and courting men who are taking your wives and girlfriends for granted, It’s been a while. I blame it on the rat race. I have an interesting update on that, but for now, I wanted to share something that’s been on my heart. I am writing this (or rather, I wrote it on […]

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10 good reasons why you shouldn’t envy that entrepreneur

Hey, aspiring business owner. I’m back in the “rat race” after years of entrepreneurship and I thought I’d share a few things about my journey; particularly, reasons why you shouldn’t envy that entrepreneur you wish you could become. (Exodus 20:17 would be a wonderful place to start.) Granted, owning a business takes guts, and the […]

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10 ways to know if a man is test-driving you

Hey, ladies. Are you wondering if that man you love so much is wasting your time? A few years ago, I read an article on Boundless.org titled Stop Test-Driving Your Girlfriend. I’m sure you’ve read it already… and if you’re like me, it hits home in so many ways. But these men are so slick […]

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Friend

Dear friend, I am learning what it means to be loyal and faithful. As your friend, I must draw from God’s abundant grace to love you more in my actions than in my words, to celebrate your successes as though they are my own, to be a conduit for divine blessing in your life, to […]

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