Tag archive for relationships

10 good reasons why you shouldn’t envy that entrepreneur

Hey, aspiring business owner. I’m back in the “rat race” after years of entrepreneurship and I thought I’d share a few things about my journey; particularly, reasons why you shouldn’t envy that entrepreneur you wish you could become. (Exodus 20:17 would be a wonderful place to start.) Granted, owning a business takes guts, and the […]

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Is it ever okay to walk?

When it comes to emotive issues (abortion, property rights, Biblical womanhood, etc), I tend to have firm, unwavering opinions. Divorce is one thing about which I have had a stubborn stand for a long time. In my view, until very recently, it was just never  permissible for any serious Christian couple. As far as I […]

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10 ways to know if a man is test-driving you

Hey, ladies. Are you wondering if that man you love so much is wasting your time? A few years ago, I read an article on Boundless.org titled Stop Test-Driving Your Girlfriend. I’m sure you’ve read it already… and if you’re like me, it hits home in so many ways. But these men are so slick […]

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10 tough truths about dating today’s Christian woman

Dear unmarried guys, I hate to break it to you, but Christian women are not as innocent as they may seem. Perhaps instead of saying “they”, I should say “we,” but oh, well. Semantics. I thought about you today, guys, and decided that it would be a good idea to tell you the truth because […]

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Friend

Dear friend, I am learning what it means to be loyal and faithful. As your friend, I must draw from God’s abundant grace to love you more in my actions than in my words, to celebrate your successes as though they are my own, to be a conduit for divine blessing in your life, to […]

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10 things I try to do to keep my life drama-free

Hey! Have you ever been through a phase where you felt like “No More Drama” should be your theme song? One morning a few years ago, I woke up and faced a reality I had been avoiding for months. I was dissatisfied with my life. Sure, at first glance, everything appeared to be going well. […]

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10 things you can do if she becomes “irrational”

Hi guys. We women can be a pain, don’t you think? From what I gather, we’re hard to understand and impossible to deal with. Some of you have gone so far as to call us borderline psycho. Can’t live with us, can’t kill us live without us. What’s a man to do? Well… if you […]

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10 types of toxic guys

Hey there, Are you wondering if you’re dating/courting/engaged to the wrong man? Nobody is perfect, so for anyone to get married, they have to settle in some way. But while God created each of us fearfully and wonderfully, there is a level beyond which no woman should settle. There is such a thing as getting […]

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10 things that show him he’s “home”

Howdy! Is it true that any man can commit when he finds the right woman? I’m sure we all have that friend who dated a guy for eight years, then broke up with him because he wouldn’t commit, only for him to end up married to someone he “barely knows” six months later. I’m hoping […]

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10 precious milestones every newlywed can expect

Dear Mercy, Isn’t love beautiful? Just the other day, we were praying because you were afraid that you had missed your deadline; terrified that the battery on your ticking clock would run out before the right person came along. And now, in just a few days, you’re going to be a bride. One of the […]

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